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3 years and counting.....

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I am a few days from my wedding anniversary and not surprising I have been thinking a lot about it. How do I feel about it? What have I learnt? Is it perfect? Am I happy? These are some of the questions that have crossed my mind. Of course in between changing a diaper and chasing the little one about. Some of the questions have pretty straightforward answers. Yes, I am happy and No, it is not perfect. But it works. We work.  We are learning to work as a team.This is all cliché stuff, I know. But it has to be said. Marriage is a LOT of work. No be small thing. Its a daily something. No back burner things. You have to be in it to win it. That said,(phew.... I hate saying common things), what advice has been most helpful to me since I got married. 2 tips hunt me in marriage , ok actually 3. lucky you, I will be sharing them. 1. There is no model for a marriage. Yes , I said it. There is no set way couples should deal with a problem. Even when it is the exact same problem. We ar