Just Saying

I was going to share a story about the pressure a friend was getting from her folks about marriage. But decided maybe I should make this interesting and ask people to share some of the more 'interesting' comments they have received about why they are unmarried. Also interesting schemes you've heard or experienced concerning marriage. please no- she got pregnant stories. they have been played out. Thanks I'll start this off with a few. Please drop yours in the comment box - Have you graduated with your MRS degree yet? - During a prayer session- God if she has used her husband to do 'ako' in the past. Lord, forgive her. Please let him come back. - Hasn't prince Charming showed up yet? Will add more as I think of them...

I have a pretty simple question. Why does a woman/man become a mistress? I mean, ignoring or putting aside the socio-economic reason that is touted most times. How satisfying is it really to have a man/woman that is only there half the time,if it's even up to half.  Someone you can't call at the drop off the hat. Can only provide you with their full attention once in awhile and can walk out on you or deny you whenever. I mean, you can't possibly show off this person. For all you Instagram addicts, you can't put up pictures of you and this 'special person'. You definitely can't 'loud' this relationship. So, in some ways,as my sister puts it - it's a hole in the corner affair. Well, I think there must be some kind of thrill for these people. It's the same way an addict gets high. They enjoy the thrill of a new relationship. One that only 'they' know about. They pretend in public but get 'high' in private. They discover

Following my earlier posts about relationships and finding a 'life partner', decided to do some research and come up with interesting relationship facts. I plan to unveil relationship facts that could help someone out there. Please I just call them facts. That does NOT make them so. Remember there is no road map to this thing called relationships. Its a very individual thing. SO here's hoping I keep you all entertained and coming back to read more. Please feel free to drop your comments below. Thanks    #FACT 1 One of the most important relationships in any individuals' life is the relationship between their parents. The way a child sees his/her parents interact serves as a back bone for almost every other relationship the child has. And this doesn't just apply to romantic involvements. It also colours our other relationships -siblings, friends, colleagues  even with your boss. This does not mean a child from a home where the parents are divorced will