Just Saying

I came across this article on Y Naija - Indecent dressing leads to rape. Supposedly written by some concerned mothers. Read it HERE . I tried to keep an open mind as I read it. I am not sure if I succeeded. That said, I just have to respond. I think silence encourages people to say these things that do not help move us forward. Dear Concerned Mothers' YOU are the reason rape persists in our society. YOU are the reason more women do not come forward when they are raped. People like you, concerned mothers', insist on blaming the victim. Its like justifying the rapist. 'Because she was scantily dressed, she was attacked.' The more we continue to focus on the victim, the more men feel they can and will get away with the act. Let us, STOP looking at the victim or what she wore or the color of her hair. NOTHING justifies rape.

 A website has recently gone up for wives to name and shame their husbands' misstress'. Not sure what the process is for getting on the site but women are encouraged to send pics of said mistress, a little history about the affair and contact info for the woman. It's called - She's a Homewrecker. Look it up HERE . I read about it on several sites. One site referred to it as bullying. I tend to agree. Its the same principle of going after the mistress and absolving your husband of any guilt. So, do you think it's a good idea? would you use this site? oh by the way, i hear He's a homewrecker website will be up soon. So, husbands can look forward to this.